anger

anger

Etymology: L, angere, to hurt

an emotional reaction characterized by extreme displeasure, rage, indignation, or hostility. It is considered to be of pathologic origin when such a response does not realistically reflect a person's actual circumstances. However, expressions of anger vary widely in different individuals and cultures and may be considered functional under certain controlled circumstances.

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Patient discussion about anger.

Q. I am really scared to discuss with him on this issue. Hi! I’m Olivia. These days, my husband is very much irritated, showing anger, extremely sad, try to be lonely , shouts to the core and does not show interest in sex . I am really scared to discuss with him on the issue. When I did discuss with my friend, she said all this might be the symptoms of Bipolar Disorder and advised me to consult a Physician.. Can anyone in this Forum please help me out?

A. Your husband sounds like he is in a depression. There are some thinks i would focus my worry on at this moment. It is not uncommon for people suffering with depression to seclude themselves, they feel like they are no fun to be around and they dont want people to see them in their depression. Having said that being around positive people is good for them. Your friend is right that you should try to convince your husband to speak to his doctor. Approach it with sensitivity and love. You can not force him to do anything but let him know in a very gental way that you are concerned about him and how he has been feeling. Encourage him that there are ways available to him to feel better. Watch his anger and frusterations, those moments would not be the time I brought this topic up with him. In those moments give him space. Remember that he doesnt want to feel the way he does, he doesnt have control over these thoughts and emotions. Your love, patience and support are detramental

Q. Without any reasons I am getting angry. I remain always depressed. Which medicines should I take? I have a problem. Without any reasons I am getting angry. I remain always depressed. I am not able to understand what to be done in which time. I have gone completely out of routine. I get involved in fight with anyone. It’s messing up my life. I am not able to concentrate in my studies. I do not feel happy when I meet my friends rather it makes me highly depressed. When any of my friends taunts me or make any sort of joke on me it makes me very anger and I had fought with one. I don’t want to fight but something went that day I have beaten my friend. He was close to me and had helped me in my bad times. I just don’t understand what`s going on. I need some help…please any one give me some guidance on what sort problem it is and is this curable by medicines? Which medicines should I take?

A. Hey my dear friend…do not worry you will get well and you will be also feel good and happy. This low period might be due to anything which has hurt you. Please try to find what has hurt you and which is rolling in your subconscious mind and is giving you pain. I would suggest you to take up on your hobbies regularly. Do a bit of exercise. Exercise will boost up your body and a good body will make you feel better. Please do not take any medicine on anyone’s advice. Do what I have told you and if you do not find things getting well then you meet a doctor. Take any medicine given by the doctor in time. Let the doctor guide you, which will be good for you.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hzb1KUHHUZY&eurl=http://www.imedix.com/health_community/vHzb1KUHHUZY_canadian_mental_coverage_suicide_depression?q=depression&feature=player_embedded

Q. Do you believe that anger can be one of the main causes of depression? People say that I am short tempered. I feel like to yelling at everybody. I feel that I am flying off the handle too often and this has led to depression. Do you believe that anger can be one of the main causes of depression? If so, why?

A. Hi my firebrand friend! I could feel that you are not at all short tempered ? but in my case, I think it has been. While depression certainly is an illness caused by a chemical imbalance in the brain, I think anger can trigger symptoms akin to depression. Looking back now at my last hospitalization, I see that I was angry with someone most unreasonably so. So I started feeling guilty about this. I have time now to think about the situation that happened. I know I had over-reacted. I am much better now after medication to cure my depression and have started reasoning out every situation and find that I react better to people.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YCPjHCieT2M&eurl=http://www.imedix.com/health_community/vghwyM%5EszK0k_depression_anger?q=anger%20%20causes%20%20depression&feature=player_embedded